MumSpace provides support for the emotional health of new and expecting mums at every step.


All new parents experience times when being a parent is challenging.  Some parents find that information or tips are enough to help them through those times; others feel they need more support to manage, and want to use a web program or app that helps them learn skills and develop plans.  Sometimes a supporter or therapist is needed in addition to online resources.

Our approach helps parents decide what support they want and need. Then, if they try one online resource and find they need more, they can select something that gives more help.  If they need less support, we may have an option that will suit them better.

For All New Parents provides access to website programs, apps and a blog that give ideas to help new parents enjoy their role and cope with the challenges it brings.

What Were We Thinking (WWWT)

As parents navigate the highs and lows of parenthood, the What Were We Thinking! interactive website, mobile app and parenting blog give new mums and dads the knowledge, skills and reassurance to parent with confidence.

Information on essential age and stage related topics to help build confidence include A New Reality; Crying, Settling, Sleeping; Every Baby is Different; Growth and Development; In This Together and Your Needs.

These resources offer all new parents free access to evidence-informed, tried and tested parenting advice from leading Australian experts.

Baby Steps

The website Baby Steps, can help new parents enjoy parenting and be prepared for challenging situations and manage their wellbeing. It includes babycare tips and information to promote wellbeing and manage relationships.

It is not just an information website but encourages action and recording of good times.

When You Need Extra Help

MindMumJust Released!

The new MindMum app helps you manage stress, stay positive and fulfilled and deal with life’s ups and downs. MindMum provides strategies to address issues affecting mood, relationships and parenting. Access the features of the App through 6 buttons on the home screen:

  • Ideas – a collection of tip sheets for new mums and pregnant women
  • How I’m Feelingan interactive mood rating tool
  • Feel Better – a behaviour activation tool
  • Work on It – a problem solving tool
  • My Log – provides a space to record your good times
  • Calm – helps you de-stress and relax through mindfulness tracks

Online Treatments


If you’re expecting or have a new baby and are struggling to cope, feeling flat, sad or depressed, this program may help you.

MumMoodBooster is a new online cognitive-behavioural therapy treatment program that has been proven to be highly effective. Available 24/7 and suitable for new mums, it is the only online treatment program of its kind in Australia. Mum2BMoodBooster has been developed especially for pregnant mums.

MumMoodBooster includes:

  • Six sequential interactive sessions accessed from the convenience of your home
  • Weekly SMS support
  • Video vignettes and exercises to help identify and manage symptoms of depression
  • Behavioural and cognitive skills
  • Your own interactive and tailored workbook

Access to lots of online information

There has been a lot of research conducted to understand antenatal and postnatal depression (sometimes called ‘perinatal depression’) and its causes. Although biological changes such as fluctuations in hormones following birth might contribute to postnatal depression, this is only part of the story.

Depression is not simply a biological illness, or a heavy cloud that “descends upon us” – even though depression is often experienced like this. Instead, a combination of psychological, social, cultural and biological factors best explain the onset of perinatal depression. Some women are more vulnerable than others, for instance, due to a family history of depression. Triggering events such as loss of income and insufficient support can also contribute. The transition to parenthood is also challenging, especially if this your first baby.


While almost 80% of new mothers feel “blue” for a few days after birth, about 20% experience postnatal depression in the months after delivery. Postnatal depression is more severe and long lasting than the baby blues – it causes greater interference in being able to enjoy your day and the symptoms are often described as ‘like descending into a black hole’.

Symptoms can range in severity from mild to severe and can include feeling hopeless, feeling tearful, irritable, and/or having emotional highs and lows. When a number of symptoms (such as those in the box below) cluster together you may be diagnosed with a depressive disorder that warrants treatment such as the online treatment available on MumSpace. You may also experience anxiety, such as worrying about your health and your baby’s health or just being tense in general and having confused thoughts.  Our online treatment also offers techniques for managing anxiety.

Women with depression do not all experience the same symptoms. The severity, frequency and duration of symptoms will vary depending on the individual and her particular history.

You may be diagnosed with postpartum depression if you experience 5 or more of these symptoms in the last 2 weeks:

  1. Low mood
  2. Less interest in or pleasure from activities
  3. Significant changes in appetite or weight (unrelated to your pregnancy or breastfeeding)
  4. Problems sleeping or falling asleep (even when your baby is sleeping) or sleeping too much
  5. Lack of energy or tiredness
  6. Feeling worthless or guilty
  7. Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  8. Repeated thoughts about death and suicide
  9. Changes in the way you move (restless or slowed down)

A smaller number of pregnant women and new mums (about 1 in every 1000) will experience episodes of more severe mental health conditions including psychosis, bipolar or schizophrenic disorders. Women who have a history or a family history of these kinds of illness may be more vulnerable to relapse in the perinatal period. If you are concerned, it is therefore important to speak to your GP or other medical professional.

Wondering if your mood is spiraling downwards?

Monitoring your mood is an important step to help you decide if you need extra help or treatment. Try our MindMum App daily mood monitoring function or you can get a fuller picture by going to the MumMoodBooster Program.



MindMum has been designed to help new and expectant mums cope with life’s ups and downs

Our friendly emojis help you track how you are feeling 🙁 to 🙂 and what you are experiencing: Feeling Sad? Anxious? Or, you may be Happy or Content?

Click here to download the MindMum app.

You can rate your mood by heading to the ‘How I’m Feeling’ menu box on the MindMum home screen.

Tips of how to manage your mood are an extra feature.


Our interactive online program, which begins with self-screening on the well-known 10- item Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale (EPDS). Your score will be explained to you and if elevated, we suggest you continue with the program to tackle your mood. You will continue to monitor your mood over the 6-week program and in your workbook you can see how you are going.

Click here to register for MumMoodBooster.

By clicking ‘Join Today’ you will be directed to registration and the EPDS screening page. Follow the prompts to receive your log-in details via email.

As you progress through the MumMoodBooster program, you will be prompted to enter your mood for each day, as well as periodic self-assessment with well-established tools for assessing severity of depression and anxiety.

You can monitor and track your mood over time, as well as see how it relates to events in your life, by entering any pleasant activities you may have participated in with your baby, partner or friends and family.


Preparing for the transition to parenthood

Becoming a mother requires women to adapt to life change at many levels. They often find that this is a time when they re-examine their identity, have to deal with many physical changes of pregnancy and childbirth, adjust to new home or work routines and make space within existing relationships for the new baby.

Becoming confident in being a mother can take some time – to develop skills, to feel comfortable and confident in managing a new baby and to feel more in control.

Although no one can be sure just what their particular experience will be like, it can often be an exciting time with many highs but there will no doubt be some lows as well.

Getting ready for changes

Some of the major changes that you will have to navigate as a new mother include:

  • physical changes to your body
  • changes to your emotions
  • changes to your relationships with your partner and family
  • changes to your working life
  • changes to your social life
  • taking the responsibility for a growing baby, every day

How easily women adjust to the varied demands of pregnancy and parenthood is different for different women. At times, these challenges can feel stressful and even scary. Common questions and concerns that pregnant women and new mothers have include:

  • Is this the right time for me to be having a child?
  • How will I cope with childbirth?
  • Will I be a “good” mother?
  • Will my baby be healthy?
  • How will having a new baby impact on my/our lives?

These are all normal concerns. Doing some planning for the changes, finding out about services in your local area, and being ready to access supports will help you with your transition to parenthood.

Expectations of parenthood

Sometimes what we expect can be very different from the reality we experience. The bigger the gap between expectation and reality, the more the adjustment that is required. Speaking to others can be a useful reality check. If things don’t go to plan, we need not have feelings that we have somehow failed.

In reality, pregnancy and being a mother during the first year of a new baby’s life is often filled by a constant stream of demanding tasks and physical changes. Sleepless nights, feeling tearful, and sometimes just not knowing what to do, are all a part of this. Managing big changes in daily routine, broken sleep, and learning to look after a baby all require enormous physical effort, emotional energy and patience. Not surprisingly many new parents feel fatigued and sometimes find it hard to manage.

What other women have found helpful in the transition to parenthood

  • Information about what to expect at the different stages of parenthood.
  • Being able to talk frankly and openly about the realities of pregnancy and motherhood.
  • Being able to share experiences and feel reassured that you are not alone.
  • Having people who will really listen and understand your complex emotions.
  • Being in contact with people who encourage you to seek help when needed.
  • Having offers of help and feeling able to accept help.
  • Realising that taking care of yourself is a vital part of caring for your family.

When expecting a baby, it is helpful to start thinking about and talking to those close to you about the day to day challenges and how to manage these. Once the baby arrives, talking to others, joining in with other new mothers, and sharing experiences can help you adjust. There are community supports for young families in most local communities so you will not be alone. Open communication with partners, friends and families is essential.

Three key messages to remember

1. Asking for and accepting help is a strength: It is a strength to be able to ask for help when you feel that you need it and to be able to accept help when it is offered.

2. Go with the flow: Simply accepting that with a new baby in the house you will have less control over the details of things than you used to can be a relief, take the pressure off, and feel liberating.

Constant change is the reality of early parenthood and doesn’t mean you’re not keeping up or you’re doing it badly! In fact nothing could be further from the truth. Be comfortable with the fact that things don’t have to be perfect – the floors don’t need to be mopped and the laundry doesn’t have to be folded and put away every single day – that’s how most people’s houses are in reality!

It helps to learn to stay flexible, be a bit open-minded, and expect that changes will happen.

Caring for a new baby requires new knowledge and skills. It is common to feel clumsy and a bit incompetent at the start. Learning these new things and getting to know your baby take time and experience. Over time you will feel more self-confident and competent.

3. Trust yourself: Once you feel able to be realistic about what you can achieve and not overly worried over little things, you will feel more confident in being assertive. When others offer what seems like well-meant but misguided advice – ignore what feels wrong and do what you know is right for you. For example, when you are caring for a new baby, there may be times that you just feel overwhelmed by too many visitors, too much contact from relatives and too much ‘free advice”.  When you need your own space to be respected, communicating your wishes clearly, calmly and in a positive polite manner will help you get what you need without creating conflict.

Coping Strategies

Here are some of the many ways of preparing for and managing pregnancy, birth and early parenthood that can help you make the most of it and minimise the stresses of adjustment.

  • Planning ahead – Organising support in the early months can reduce stress. Enlist any family or friends willing to help in specific tasks. Plan to avoid major life changes (moving house, changing jobs)
  • Feeling supported – Developing a support network of friends, family, health professionals and mother-baby groups can help you a lot, not least by giving you the opportunity to share your experiences. While it can be hard to accept help, it is worth making make the most of offers of help from friends and family (including the older generations) and involving your partner in the daily care of your baby right from the beginning.                                                                                                                        
  • Staying healthy and rested – Try to eat healthy meals, take time to do some exercise and avoid drugs and alcohol. Taking a power nap whenever your baby is sleeping can help you stay physically refreshed and mentally well. Take sleep opportunities when partners, family members and friends are able to help by looking after your baby. When there is so much to do, taking time to just sleep may seem like a challenge but getting enough rest for yourself is important for you and your baby. Learning how to settle your baby into a good sleeping pattern is vitally important. You can find out more about this in the What Were We Thinking website and app.
  • Managing stress Keeping a diary of feelings and taking time to look back can help you understand the things that make you feel stressed and plan to do things differently in the future. Learning some breathing and muscle relaxation techniques and letting the people around you know what you are feeling can be positive ways of helping yourself get through the tough times. You can find out more about relaxation in the MindMum App or the MumMoodBooster programs.
  • Taking time-out – Taking some time out for yourself will help you to recharge your batteries. Once in a while organise friends or family to help with childcare. Use this time to do the things that you enjoy – maybe just some quite time alone, reading a book, enjoying your favourite music, having a long relaxing soak in the bath, watching a good movie, spending time with your partner or friends, or simply getting some sleep.
  • Look after your own needs Your friends and family may want to visit you more often than usual and offer well-meaning advice. Don’t feel that you need to entertain endlessly or that you should always take their advice. Discuss your concerns with a health professional, such as at Maternal Child and Family Health Nurse or GP. There is no right or wrong way of parenting. It is all about working out what is right for you and your baby.
  • Be kind to yourself It can take time to feel comfortable with your changing body and then parenting a new baby. Don’t just focus what you feel you ‘should’ be doing better. Acknowledge the many things you are already doing well and give yourself time to adjust. You will start to learn how to read and follow your baby’s cues. Just by watching and listening in an unhurried way, you will learn from your baby what they need from you and how to respond, and feel more relaxed and confident.

Adjustment: When it all gets too hard and you need extra help

Parenthood is a major life transition and it takes time to adjust. It is entirely normal to feel overwhelmed by parenthood at times.  When this happens, confide in someone close that you trust (your partner, close family, a good friend).  With a little help most things can be sorted if you share the load.  Some problems however, may not be so simple, but helping yourself by sharing your concerns and finding support can help you manage the bigger challenges too. Everyone has some difficulties and at times you will need extra help, or a program of treatment from a trusted resource or health professional.

Up to 1 in 3 women experience mild, or more intense depressive symptoms, adjustment problems and anxiety during pregnancy or the postnatal period. Difficulties with baby’s settling, crying and breastfeeding are common and together with other stressors can also feed into a downward spiral if you are feeling sad, low or worried.

Read more on the “Learn about causes and symptoms of perinatal depression” section on this page.

Help Available on MumSpace

Explore the resources on MumSpace. You can find out more about building your confidence as a parent by exploring What Were We Thinking! and Baby Steps. Find out how to deal with the more common emotional problems experienced by lots of new mothers by downloading and using the new MindMum App.

The MumMoodBooster programs offer effective online treatment for pregnant women and new mums experiencing significant depression and anxiety.

All of these resources are free of charge.


  • the couple relationship,
  • family problems,
  • negative life events,
  • rethinking childhood experiences,
  • isolation, anxiety and depression,
  • skills to manage the complex demands of parenting,
  • strengthening the relationship between parents and infants.
  • developing skills in communication
If you feel you need urgent help some helplines are available.

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